Never be afraid to tell me the truth, no matter how bad you think it might be.
Are you engaging in an extramarital sexual relationship? Do you earn money off the books? These and similar important matters must be discussed openly, honestly and frankly. Precautionary measures must be taken to avoid adverse results during trial.
Remember, preparation IS the key to a successful result in a divorce. Surprises, during trial, is difficult to combat, and is frequently disastrous. Don't be shy. There is nothing, and I mean nothing, that you could tell me that I have no already heard and then some. Commit to writing all your thoughts and questions. When I review your file, we can further discuss your questions.